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Woman earns $20K as ‘professional dater’

Let’s face it, dating can be seriously hard work. Making sure you’ve got perfect nails, clean hair, shaved legs, a nice dress and being chatty and constantly charming for hours on end can be exhausting.

Which is why Sophia Chartreuse, 23, decided that if she was going to put all that effort in she might as well be paid for it.

After moving to New York when she was 19, Sophia joined dating website WhatsYourPrice.com to help her pay the rent.

Sophia turned to paid dating to help her fund her lifestyle after moving to New York. Photo: Caters

“My friend told me about it and I had to try it out. I was curious, impulsive and had champagne taste but a beer budget,” said Sophia.

“Also I was in New York and felt like I couldn’t afford to really experience New York.”

In one year on the paid dating site the photographer has banked over $20,000 despite struggling to feel comfortable going on dates with older men.

Despite feeling uncomfortable and awkward, Sophia soon got used to meeting up with people for dates. Photo: Caters

“I remember being really awkward about it at first. I was 20 and trying to make an impression on people double my age, it really tested my social skills,” she explains.

“I think in the beginning most of the dates were day-time coffee dates, like really short ones – probably because I was so awkward. But they got a lot better and more adventurous.”

The 23-year-old has people paying hundreds to spend time with her. Photo: Caters

For those curious how it all works, Sophia reveals the site is set up so people send in offers on how much they want to pay for a date.

“[It’s] usually somewhere between $65 and $260 with the average being $130,” explains Sophia.

Since joining the WhatsYourPrice.com website, Sophia has made $20,000. Photo: www.whatsyourprice.com

“The highest offer I received that actually panned out was $390.

“It was this business guy visiting New York and just not wanting to go out alone I guess.”

Sophia admits her dates started out as day-time events, but have since gotten more “adventurous”. Photo: Caters

The Portland, Oregon native is still single, but reveals she does stay in touch with some of the people she met on the site.

“Even though it was kind of superficial, it got me through and kept me entertained,” she adds.

Although she’s a serial dater, Sophia admits she’s still single. Photo: Caters

“I still talk to a handful of the people I met on there, it’s kind of crazy.

“I went into it with like a fake name and everything and ended up with some not so fake friends.”