{"id":75034,"date":"2021-12-15T01:41:42","date_gmt":"2021-12-15T01:41:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.thefastfashion.com\/?p=75034"},"modified":"2021-12-15T01:41:42","modified_gmt":"2021-12-15T01:41:42","slug":"billie-eilish-began-watching-porn-11-really-destroyed-brain","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thefastfashion.com\/?p=75034","title":{"rendered":"Billie Eilish began watching porn at 11: &#8216;It really destroyed my brain&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Billie Eilish says porn \u201cdestroyed my brain\u201d after she began watching graphic online movies while she was still in elementary school.<\/p>\n<p>The singing sensation \u2014 who is now 19 \u2014 made the shocking confession during \u201cThe Howard Stern Show\u201d on Monday.<\/p>\n<div class=\"e3lan e3lan-in-post1\"><\/div>\n<p>\u201cAs a woman, I think porn is a disgrace,\u201d Eilish\u00a0declared in the interview. \u201cI used to watch a lot of porn, to be honest. I started watching porn when I was like 11.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The \u201cOcean Eyes\u201d crooner continued: \u201cI think it really destroyed my brain and I feel incredibly devastated that I was exposed to so much porn.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Eilish also admitted that she began watching more and more graphic types of pornography, which warped her ideas about sex and relationships.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt got to a point where I couldn\u2019t watch anything else unless it was violent, I didn\u2019t think it was attractive,\u201d she confessed.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI was a virgin. I had never done anything. And so, it led to problems \u2026 The first few times I had sex, I was not saying no to things that were not good. It was because I thought that\u2019s what I was supposed to be attracted to.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The singer told Stern that she began watching \u201cabusive\u201d BDSM porn, which she says causes her to now suffer from night terrors and sleep paralysis.<\/p>\n\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m so angry that porn is so loved,\u201d Eilish blasted. \u201cAnd I\u2019m so angry at myself for thinking that it was OK.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Eilish also slammed the porn industry for creating unrealistic expectations of women\u2019s bodies.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe way that vaginas look in porn is f\u2013king crazy,\u201d she commented. \u201cNo vaginas look like that. Women\u2019s bodies don\u2019t look like that. We don\u2019t come like that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Brad Salzman, founder of the\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.bradsalzman.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">New York Sexual Addiction Center<\/a>, said it\u2019s not unusual for children to first begin watching online porn at the age of 11.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s actually the norm,\u201d said Salzman, who has treated young men suffering from sex and porn addiction. Many of them are in their early 20s \u2014 not much older than Eilish herself.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cParents aren\u2019t paying attention and it [porn exposure] can affect them for the rest of their lives,\u201d Salzman said. \u201cIt totally colors their perception of what normal sexuality is supposed to look like and it changes the way they think that they\u2019re supposed to interact. They can begin seeing other people as sex objects as opposed to human beings.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ziv Cohen, clinical assistant professor of psychiatry at Cornell University, agreed that the age of porn exposure is shockingly young.\u00a0He said some parents have approached him in a panic after discovering that their 7 and 8 year old children have been accessing porn.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFor young children to be exposed to that gives them a very skewed and inaccurate image of sex,\u201d Cohen said. \u201cIts not positive for their perception of intimacy and the opposite sex.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\">\n<blockquote><p>\u201cPeople have to realize that internet pornography is not a harmless pastime. It might be the most addictive drug we have today.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><cite>Brad Salzman, New York Sexual Addiction Center<\/cite><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/figure>\n<p>Salzman said there are three components that make porn addictive, \u201cnone of which existed 20 years ago.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s totally accessible, totally anonymous, and totally affordable \u2014 or free. There\u2019s an unlimited supply in any flavor you want.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"e3lan e3lan-in-post2\"><p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong><em>Adv<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n<ul>\r\n \t<li style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bagfactory.com.hk\/216\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Sun Winning Ind Co<\/strong><\/span><\/a>: Manufacture of Canvas Bag, Recycle Bad in China<\/li>\r\n \t<li><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.theunitravel.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">TheUniTravel.com<\/a><\/strong><\/span> : Find the latest\u00a0<em>travel<\/em>\u00a0and tourism\u00a0<em>news<\/em>\u00a0from around the world. Stay informed with\u00a0<em>travel news<\/em>\u00a0and\u00a0<em>updates<\/em><\/li>\r\n \t\r\n<\/ul>\r\n\r\n<\/div>\n<p>Salzman was not surprised that Eilish eventually began to access more and more extreme types of porn.\u00a0\u201cIt has to become more frequent, more extreme, more risky \u2014 people have to keep turning up the volume. That\u2019s why people drift into categories they never would have gotten into in the first place \u2014 to chase the high,\u201d Salzman said.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPeople have to realize that internet pornography is not a harmless pastime. It might be the most addictive drug we have today,\u201d Salzman added.<\/p>\n<p>Cohen said parents should have open and honest conversations with their children about pornography.\u00a0He said it\u2019s not \u201crealistic\u201d that all children will be able to avoid exposure. But some of the effects of seeing pornography can be mitigated by a healthy and stable environment consisting of loving and attentive adults.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-75035\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thefastfashion.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Billie-Eilish-2-e1639532457109.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><figcaption>Eilish says she started to watch increasingly violent porn, which led her to suffer from night terrors and sleep paralysis.<\/figcaption><figcaption><span class=\"credit\">FilmMagic<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Meanwhile, Eilish told Stern that she wants to keep her dating life out of the public eye.<\/p>\n<p>While she was honest about her experiences with porn, the singer was far shyer when questioned about her relationship status.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m not a serial dater \u2026 I don\u2019t go to stuff and flirt with people,\u201d Eilish stated.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s really hard to meet people when people are either terrified of you or think that you\u2019re out of their league,\u201d she added.\u00a0\u201cLast year, I thought that I\u2019d be single for the rest of my life. I genuinely couldn\u2019t even picture myself in a relationship of any sort.\u201d<\/p>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Billie Eilish says porn \u201cdestroyed my brain\u201d after she began watching graphic online movies while she was still in elementary school. The singing sensation \u2014 who is now 19 \u2014 made the shocking confession during \u201cThe Howard Stern Show\u201d on Monday. \u201cAs a woman, I think porn is a disgrace,\u201d Eilish\u00a0declared in the interview. \u201cI &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":75036,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[611],"tags":[3870,2309],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v19.7.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Billie Eilish began watching porn at 11: &#039;It really destroyed my brain&#039; - TheFastFashion.com<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefastfashion.com\/?p=75034\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Billie Eilish began watching porn at 11: &#039;It really destroyed my brain&#039; - TheFastFashion.com\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Billie Eilish says porn \u201cdestroyed my brain\u201d after she began watching graphic online movies while she was still in elementary school. 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