{"id":70510,"date":"2021-01-14T01:51:50","date_gmt":"2021-01-14T01:51:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.thefastfashion.com\/?p=70510"},"modified":"2021-01-14T01:51:50","modified_gmt":"2021-01-14T01:51:50","slug":"dress-distress-worry-husband-will-push-away-son-finding-dresses-woman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thefastfashion.com\/?p=70510","title":{"rendered":"DRESS DISTRESS I worry my husband will push away our son after finding out he dresses as a woman"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"article__content article__content--intro\"><strong>OUR son recently told us he dresses as a woman on his days off work.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It came as a huge shock to me and my husband.<\/p>\n<p>I am beginning to accept the situation, but my husband is really struggling to come to terms with it.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t understand why my husband can\u2019t see he needs to be supportive rather than judgmental.<\/p>\n<p>I am worried he is pushing our son away and we will lose him over this.<\/p>\n<div class=\"e3lan e3lan-in-post1\"><\/div>\n<p>We have told our son we don\u2019t want him wearing women\u2019s clothes when he visits us and I\u2019m comfortable with that, but my husband takes it much further.<\/p>\n<div class=\"advert-wrapper advert-wrapper--outstream\">\n<div id=\"outstream\" class=\"dfp-ad advert--outstream\" data-google-query-id=\"CPrmkcunmu4CFU1lvAodiGgKhQ\">\n<div id=\"google_ads_iframe_3048\/d.thesun\/dear-deidre_5__container__\"><iframe id=\"google_ads_iframe_3048\/d.thesun\/dear-deidre_5\" title=\"3rd party ad content\" name=\"google_ads_iframe_3048\/d.thesun\/dear-deidre_5\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\" data-google-container-id=\"6\" data-load-complete=\"true\" data-integralas-id-d13d89fd-2c2e-f0c8-17bb-b32b90b4cdbd=\"\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>My husband and I are both in our 60s.<\/p>\n<p>He often rants about anyone with a tattoo or piercings and can\u2019t tolerate same-sex couples. I didn\u2019t realise how bigoted he really is.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know how to help him or our son, who must have gone through hell to tell us this.<\/p>\n<p>My husband says he is just too old to deal with this.<\/p>\n\n<p>Men brought up in a macho culture can feel the need to express their gentler side through dressing as a woman.<\/p>\n<p>This has come as a shock, but your son is harming no one. 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