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By Johanna Sparrow<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve found the person of your dreams, but something is wrong. Your relationship is stuck, it’s not going to the next level, commitment. What is going on?<\/em> Your partner is holding back their feelings if not sending mixed messages in your relationship. \u00a0Are they afraid of commitment<\/em>? You are not ready to give up on the relationship and they know it.\u00a0 The more you push for answers; you see them pushing you away and it hurts.\u00a0 A commitment-phobe seeks to learn everything about you in order to win your heart.\u00a0 If you aren\u2019t ready to give up on them learn how to allow them to come to you for starters.<\/p>\n

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You should know that someone with commitment issues has a difficult time trusting and giving you their heart for fear of getting hurt. \u00a0Understanding them can be confusing. \u00a0For one, you must change the way you think when you\u2019re dealing with a commitment-phobe in a relationship because unlike someone who\u2019s looking for longevity in a relationship, the person you love is afraid of commitment.\u00a0 They\u2019ll use control and deception as manipulative tools to maintain distance in the relationship. One moment, they\u2019re cold; the next, it\u2019s as if someone turned on the heater of love, and you\u2019ve forgotten that you\u2019re dealing with, a commitment-phobe. Everything you do indicates your love for them and that you are committed, but for the commitment-phobe, that\u2019s a problem.<\/p>\n

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You understand them and love their unpredictable ways.\u00a0 If you want the relationship to work, you\u2019ll have to meet them halfway.\u00a0 If you press them to show more love, they\u2019ll keep their distance.\u00a0 You must learn to back off and stop worrying.\u00a0 The less you stress over the relationship, the more they\u2019ll stress over you and that\u2019s the first step to handling your commitment phobic partner.\u00a0 When you are comfortable in the relationship they are not.\u00a0 If they feel you aren\u2019t happy, they will go out of their way to win your heart. \u00a0Know that there are many other steps that\u2019ll need to be taken, but the first step will set the tone and let your partner know who\u2019s in charge!\u00a0 If you are interested in learning all the steps in loving a commitment-phobe pick up the book Sabotage; Recognize Commitment Phobia and Experience a Healthy Relationship <\/em><\/strong>today.<\/p>\n

About the author<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Antoinette M. Watkins writes under the pen name Johanna Sparrow. She\u2019s been writing for over 22 years and has published a variety of works that include children’s books, novellas, and self-help books on the topics of relationships, personal growth, and conflict resolution.<\/h1>\n

She has released titles such as Sabotage; Recognize Commitment Phobia and Experience a Healthy Relationship<\/em><\/strong> and Dismissive Avoidant in Love: How Understanding the Four Main Styles of Attachment Can Impact Your Relationship.<\/em><\/strong><\/h1>\n

The author’s books are available in eBook and paperback and can be purchased on\u00a0<\/strong>Amazon<\/strong><\/a>,\u00a0<\/strong>Barnes and Noble<\/strong><\/a>,\u00a0Smashwords<\/a><\/u>, iTunes and everywhere books are sold.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0How can readers stay connected with you (social media pages, website, etc.)?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

JS: Readers can connect with me via my websites:\u00a0https:\/\/www.johannasparrow.com<\/a>,\u00a0https:\/\/www.johannatellsit.com\u00a0<\/a><\/p>\n

Facebook:\u00a0https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/J.Sparrowselfhelpbooks\/<\/a><\/p>\n

Twitter:\u00a0https:\/\/twitter.com\/SparrowJohanna\u00a0<\/a><\/p>\n

LinkedIn:\u00a0https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/johanna-sparrow-9929b897\/<\/a><\/p>\n

Google Plus:\u00a0https:\/\/plus.google.com\/u\/0\/+JohannaSparrow<\/a><\/p>\n

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