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We all know “cold feet” is real. But what do you do when it’s not just nerves?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

 \"personal-space-marrying-the-wrong-person\"<\/a>Cold feet isn\u2019t something that happens just in the movies, it happens in real life–actually more than you think.It\u2019s not extraordinary for someone to wake up a few months, weeks, or even days (or the day of, yikes!) before their wedding and realize, \u201cOh my goodness, I am about to say ‘I Do’ to a person who is not right for me at all.\u201d Sometimes that\u2019s just because you did a good job of ignoring your gut for a very long time. Maybe wedding planning was so stressful you saw an ugly side to your hubby or wife-to-be.<\/p>\n

So if you\u2019re finding yourself looking for a way out of walking down the aisle and kissing hello a pricey annulment or lengthy divorce later on, here are five things you can do if you\u2019re about to marry the wrong person.<\/p>\n

1<\/span>Sounds simple, but breathe<\/span><\/h2>\n

If you already have a hint that you\u2019re feeling wrong about what you are about to do, give yourself a hug and take a deep breath. You\u2019ve already taken a giant step toward admitting there\u2019s a problem. Now you\u2019re ready to take baby steps toward a solution that won\u2019t leave you feeling too embarrassed and won\u2019t have your soon-to-be ex-significant other feeling heartbroken for life.<\/p>\n

2<\/span>Talk to a stranger<\/span><\/h2>\n

Chat with anybody about this, whether it\u2019s your therapist, your trusty best friend, or a stranger on a park bench. But a stranger is likely to give you the best advice over anyone else you know. That\u2019s because they can be ultra honest and even extra wise about what you should really do, because they have zero stakes in the situation \u2013 lucky them, right?<\/em><\/p>\n

3<\/span>Figure out an escape plan<\/span><\/h2>\n

taking that honeymoon you planned, alone, because you\u2019ll need the time away to clear your head and start planning how to start over.<\/p>\n

4<\/span>Come clean<\/span><\/h2>\n

The best thing to do and probably the hardest thing to do is to come clean to your fianc\u00e9 and let that person know you have your doubts. There is a chance they\u2019ll feel the same and you two can hold hands and back out of this whole thing together. There\u2019s also a chance they will be shocked, and if they are, realize that you two were on different pages this whole time anyway.<\/p>\n

5<\/span>Go through with it<\/span><\/h2>\n

Your final option is to not do anything about it and marry this wrong person. You can divorce at anytime, for a somewhat hefty fee, and it happens all the time. It doesn\u2019t make you cowardly to walk down that aisle, but it may make you have to work overtime to not roll your eyes the whole entire time.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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