{"id":51294,"date":"2017-10-06T00:34:14","date_gmt":"2017-10-06T00:34:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.thefastfashion.com\/?p=51294"},"modified":"2017-10-06T00:34:14","modified_gmt":"2017-10-06T00:34:14","slug":"sugar-babys-nightmare-told-going-get-paid","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thefastfashion.com\/?p=51294","title":{"rendered":"Sugar baby\u2019s nightmare: \u2018He told me he was going to get what he paid for\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"

A sex worker has issued a warning to young women tempted to join \u201csugar baby\u201d dating websites, revealing how she was grabbed by the hair and raped while on a date with a \u201csugar daddy.\u201d<\/p>\n

Alex Page, a licensed prostitute who works at Dennis Hof\u2019s Moonlite Bunny Ranch in Nevada, described the incident in a blog post, slamming the \u201cdangerous propaganda\u201d put out by sites like Seeking Arrangement.<\/p>\n

\u201cI know that there are many women who have had positive experiences as independent escorts, call girls, or as sugar babies \u2014 and that there are a lot of online resources to help connect potential clients and illegal prostitutes, like sugar dating websites,\u201d she wrote.<\/p>\n

\u201cBut \u2026 the bottom line is that \u2018sugar dating\u2019 is a euphemism for \u2018prostitution,\u2019 and prostitution is an unregulated and illegal industry throughout most of the United States.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Moonlite Bunny Ranch<\/p>\n

Seeking Arrangement, founded by entrepreneur Brandon Wade, claims to have over 8 million sugar babies signed up worldwide and over 10 million active members in total.<\/p>\n

\u201cSugar babies and sugar daddies have ongoing relationships, not transactions,\u201d the company wrote in a 2014 blog post. \u201cProstitutes are paid to perform a service, while sugar babies sometimes receive funds as an added benefit of dating a generous man.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cMore often than not, a sugar relationship will resemble that of a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. There are real connections and real possibilities at romance, something that is not in the realm of possibility with an escort or prostitute.\u201d<\/p>\n

Page, who had previously worked as a prostitute for four years before trying sugar dating, said she quickly realized there was little difference.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhile my experience in both worlds left me feeling like there was little distinction between the two, there is one fundamental area where they differ, and that is safety,\u201d Page wrote.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe single most dangerous propaganda that sugar sites use to convince women that this isn\u2019t prostitution is telling them that sugar daddies understand that sex isn\u2019t a guarantee. I learned the hard way that this isn\u2019t so.\u201d<\/p>\n

She explained how she eventually met the sugar daddy, who lived in a town about half an hour away, after a few phone calls. \u201cI left the dinner thinking he seemed like an eccentric but decent guy who I wasn\u2019t sure I\u2019d want to enter into a long-term arrangement with,\u201d she wrote.<\/p>\n

\u201cI did agree to meet him once more the following week. When it came time for our second date I tried to call and cancel because my car was in the shop. Against my better judgment, I agreed to let him pick me up with the caveat that I would not be staying with him.\u201d<\/p>\n

When the man picked her up for a second date, he handed her a reloadable American Express card and insisted she keep it just for having dinner with him, even though she told him it \u201cwasn\u2019t necessary as we were still getting to know each other.\u201d<\/p>\n

After dinner, the man said he wanted to stop by his house to check on his dogs. \u201cIt made me nervous, but when he asked if I wanted to come in and see them I said that I did,\u201d she wrote.<\/p>\n

\u201cI guess I let my guard down when I was greeted by two little teacup yorkies. After I sat on his couch and started playing with them, he came and sat next to me. I didn\u2019t think anything of it until he started rubbing my shoulders.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI tensed up and told him that I should be getting home. When he didn\u2019t stop I moved to get up, and that\u2019s when he grabbed me roughly by the hair and pulled me towards him. I yelled for him to stop.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cHe reminded me of the AmEx card and told me he was going to get what he paid for. In the end, he did. After he dragged me to his bedroom, he took what he wanted, and when it was all over he went to sleep.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI spent the rest of the night on his couch cursing myself for being so stupid. In the end, I knew what happened wasn\u2019t my fault, but it\u2019s also fair to say that I had made some crucial mistakes.\u201d<\/p>\n

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