{"id":51069,"date":"2017-09-27T01:24:20","date_gmt":"2017-09-27T01:24:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.thefastfashion.com\/?p=51069"},"modified":"2017-09-27T01:24:20","modified_gmt":"2017-09-27T01:24:20","slug":"ricki-lee-embracing-failure-finding-voice-ive-start-many-times","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thefastfashion.com\/?p=51069","title":{"rendered":"Ricki-Lee on embracing failure and finding your voice: &#8216;I&#8217;ve had to start over so many times&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Ricki-Lee Coulter<\/strong>&nbsp;isn&#8217;t one to get caught up in the fear of failure.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ve had to start over again so many times in my life,&#8221; the 31-year-old singer tells TheFIX. &#8220;Whether it was getting divorced at 21, or cutting ties with my management because I knew they were screwing me over.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Still, she admits it took her years to harness that fighting spirit.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m such a people pleaser,&#8221; she says. &#8220;I don&#8217;t like confrontation, and as a result I&#8217;ve stayed in things at the expense of my own happiness for too long.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div class=\"e3lan e3lan-in-post1\"><\/div>\n\n<p>With new music out this month, Ricki-Lee is moving away from her pop roots and stripping back. It&#8217;s a departure that&#8217;s taught her more about herself than she ever anticipated.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;As a creative person, I always want to heighten everything and see everything in this beautiful way,&#8221; she explains.&#8221;But while I was writing [my new single] &#8216;Not Too Late&#8217;, I realised that I had to forget about trying to package everything up and present it with a bow &#8212; because the most powerful thing is the raw truth.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The singer &#8212; who found fame on the second season of&nbsp;<em>Australian Idol&nbsp;<\/em>in 2001 &#8212; recently returned home to Sydney after a two-year stint in Los Angeles with her manager husband Richard Harrison.<\/p>\n<p>Her return comes at a sombre time in the Australian political sphere, as the nation awaits the results of the same-sex marriage postal vote.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m so ashamed that we live in a country that this isn&#8217;t law,&#8221; Ricki-Lee says. &#8220;I&#8217;m disgusted &#8212; sick to my stomach.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div class=\"box shadow  \"><div class=\"box-inner-block\"><i class=\"fa tie-shortcode-boxicon\"><\/i>\n\t\t\t\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin: 1px; padding: 0px; border-radius: 3px; border: 0px currentColor; width: calc(100% - 2px); max-width: 658px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 1px 0px rgba(0,0,0,0.5), 0px 1px 10px 0px rgba(0,0,0,0.15);\" data-instgrm-version=\"7\">\n<div style=\"padding: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background: rgb(248, 248, 248); padding: 50% 0px; width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px;\">&nbsp;<\/div>\n<p style=\"padding: 8px 0px 7px; text-align: center; color: rgb(201, 200, 205); line-height: 17px; overflow: hidden; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin-top: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; white-space: nowrap; -ms-text-overflow: ellipsis;\"><a style=\"color: rgb(201, 200, 205); line-height: 17px; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BZNhMqID6n4\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">A post shared by R I C K I &#8211; L E E (@therickilee)<\/a> on <time style=\"line-height: 17px; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\" datetime=\"2017-09-19T05:41:19+00:00\">Sep 18, 2017 at 10:41pm PDT<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script src=\"\/\/platform.instagram.com\/en_US\/embeds.js\" defer=\"\" async=\"\"><\/script>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/div>\n<p>Having spent time in America &#8212; where the law was passed at the federal level in 2015 &#8212; Ricki-Lee admits the &#8220;misguided&#8221; opinions about same-sex couples that are currently floating around are hard to digest.<\/p>\n<div class=\"e3lan e3lan-in-post2\"><p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong><em>Adv<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n<ul>\r\n \t<li style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bagfactory.com.hk\/216\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Sun Winning Ind Co<\/strong><\/span><\/a>: Manufacture of Canvas Bag, Recycle Bad in China<\/li>\r\n \t<li><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.theunitravel.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">TheUniTravel.com<\/a><\/strong><\/span> : Find the latest\u00a0<em>travel<\/em>\u00a0and tourism\u00a0<em>news<\/em>\u00a0from around the world. Stay informed with\u00a0<em>travel news<\/em>\u00a0and\u00a0<em>updates<\/em><\/li>\r\n \t\r\n<\/ul>\r\n\r\n<\/div>\n\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s so important to use your voice and make your voice heard,&#8221; she says. &#8220;Don&#8217;t get complacent and think that somebody else is going to make it happen.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;If everyone uses this moment, it&#8217;s going to make a huge difference in so many people&#8217;s lives.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8216;Not Too Late&#8217; is&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/rickilee.lnk.to\/NotTooLateFP\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-tracking-initialized=\"true\">out now<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ricki-Lee Coulter&nbsp;isn&#8217;t one to get caught up in the fear of failure. &#8220;I&#8217;ve had to start over again so many times in my life,&#8221; the 31-year-old singer tells TheFIX. &#8220;Whether it was getting divorced at 21, or cutting ties with my management because I knew they were screwing me over.&#8221; 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